Exiled in Babylon: why the US invasion of Iraq still governs our lives

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Last week, I wrote about contagions, zombies, and mindless horde behavior.

To wit, one of the top banks in the US, Silicon Valley Bank, was being trampled to death by a panicked mob as I was writing.

But, this is a newsletter on peace, not finance. So, on this 20-year anniversary of the US invasion of Iraq—which was the O.G. “bank run” of this century—I want to go deeper into the psychology of panic, animism, and self-fulfilling prophecies.

But first… let’s go back in time.

The Beginning of the End

I remember right where I was when I learned about the first plane crashing into the World Trade Center on the morning of September 11, 2001. I remember the rubble, the “we’ll rebuild”, and “hell to pay” speeches.

You know what I don’t remember?

I don’t remember anyone saying, “Don’t panic.”

I’m sure it was said. And the projection of force was certainly intended to help. But hindsight has made one thing crystal clear: we engaged in a global freak out.

9/11 and the Destruction of the Temple

But should one event change a nation—indeed the world—forever? I got this key insight from scholar Walter Brueggemann.

In 587 BCE, the Babylonians burned the city of Jerusalem to the ground, destroying the Temple of Solomon, the center of Jewish worship. Those who survived were forcibly displaced into the kingdom of Babylon.

On Sept. 11, 2001, Islamic jihadists attacked the the centers of American worship: our Temple of Finance and Temple of Defense. As we glued ourselves to our TVs, we were displaced politically, morally, and spiritually.

God’s chosen peoples, attacked in their fortresses, and sent into exile, forever changing their identity and practice of both God and self.

The Jews were hauled away by an invading army.

We Americans got carried away through our own panic.

By the Rivers of Babylon

After 9/11, endless media coverage on Arabs, Islam, and Osama created a snowball effect; or as I’m now seeing it, a bank run on nuance. The next 9/11 was always right around the corner. So we pulled generations’ worth of growing trust out of society and left those who needed our benefit of the doubt holding the bag.

It was the classic prisoner’s dilemma: betray another to save yourself; or ride together into a shared experience of suffering.

The choice was clear.

Seven days later, when the vote was taken to authorize military force against the Taliban and al-Qaeda, the resolution passed 518-1.

Muslims were rounded up in a surveillance dragnet and locked into digital internment camps.

Parachutes for office workers went on sale in case another skyscraper was hit.

The Jews sat by the rivers of Babylon and reimagined their faith. America was carried away into Babylon in a riptide of our own panic that left up to 1,000,000 dead between the Tigris and Euphrates.

"Here, take my brain.”

I remember Edward Snowden saying something like, “Panic makes us vulnerable.” Snowden went on to explain how, in our season of collective panic after 9/11, we all but asked the powers over us to strip us of agency in the name of “security”.

And this is how it often works.

Something happens, we turn to our media to understand what happened, and the echochamber of our own curation hypes us into hysteria. Soon, we’re running like lemmings off a cliff (or throwing each other to the sharks) in the name of survival.

The Patriot Act passed in just 45 days. Today, similarly consequential changes for both personal relationships and public policy are being executed in just 45 minutes, long before the facts can catch up to the speed of transmission.

Panicked Attack

“Discourse be damned” may be the central tenet of the panicked attack. And if it was hard in 2001, the deluge of information available to us all has not exactly made things any easier.

So now, the terrorism problem, where angry young men kill powerful old ones, has mutated. Today, angry people everywhere feel something they dislike and take reflexive aim at that which does not conform to their moral entrepreneurship.

Complex realities are reduced to discrete, bumper sticker solutions.

From Ground Zero to Zero Tolerance

For our lack of imagination to anticipate 9/11, we have developed a knee-jerk proclivity to over-imagine nearly everything. The 1990s had been a great run of American expansion. And then, our fortress fell. To compensate, no rock could be left unturned, no scenario unaccounted for, and no phone or email untapped. If we had to cheat, lie, steal, and torture our way back to our feelings of impurviousness, then we must.

Welcome to the Age of Panic, where everything is a global catastrophe and a moral judgement.

From Ground Zero, we gave ourselves over rather easily to zero tolerance—for each other, for disagreement, and for diverse understandings of morality, patriotism, and goodness. As we watched our brothers, sisters, and neighbors go to war, we all became militants.

We stood by as our local police started to look like our soldiers abroad—after all, there were “sleeper cells” among us.

Even our activists embraced the language of militance over diplomacy: “waging” this, and “warring” that; defunding, denouncing, and occupying.

We were swept up.

Who Then Shall We Blame?

Obviously the media is to blame for all of this, right? Or Facebook and Twitter? Or the politicians?

Well, they play a role. But the philosopher Taylor Swift may have said it best:

"It's me, hi, I'm the problem, it's me."

Why are the most strident voices of society in our heads in the first place? Yes, the platforms have engineered us all toward rage and panic to increase their ad revenue. But we are the ones who let them.

When dissecting each other’s rage, we may find any number of culprits at the center of the story. But no one can make us panic or overreact. That is something we do entirely on our own.

So, here are 5 principles I use to steel myself against panic.

1. Plan for the worst: Last week, I talked about the survivor’s mentality that makes decisions by asking “What if we die?”

But the best question when planning for the worst may actually be “What if we live? What are the 30 different things that could threaten the ongoing viability of our community, including the second-order effects of our own decisions?”

But contingency planning is not the same as catastrophizing everything. The more people hear you say “this is not a big deal”, the more they’ll trust you when you say “this is”.

2. Give benefit of the doubt: Once you’ve planned for the worst, it gets easier to assume the best. Most people are not evil. And this is certainly true in our families, workplaces, and everyday friendships. But there is a troubling maxim today that encourages us to shoot our wounded.

“When someone shows you who they really are, believe them” is a viral piece of pop therapy that people are using to govern their lives.

Questioning our own story, working toward reconciliation, encouraging forgiveness… these are becoming more antiquated by the day. But nothing helps me avoid groupthink and panic more.

3. Delay decisions: Yes, there are genuine emergencies that require immediate action (see Planning, above). But refusing to make decisions (or even weigh in) when emotions are high is one of the best ways to avoid contributing to groupthink and panicked reactions.

See yourself NOT commenting, retweeting, or privately sharing that news article or rumor. See yourself NOT texting your confidant when someone says something you dislike on staff call. See yourself NOT having any opinion whatsoever until all the facts are on the table. And if you’re the last-stop decision maker, take more time. Unless you’re an actual soldier or surgeon, most things are not emergencies.

4. Embrace death: It’s ok to die. It’s ok for your business to die. It’s ok to get laid off or fired. It’s ok to lose your reputation. It’s all ok. I mean, it’s horrific and the worst, of course. But none of us make it out alive. The sooner we stop holding back and start living such that we slide into the grave sideways, spent, the sooner we can live according to our own convictions without fear of these environmentally-induced panicked attacks taking us out against our will.

No one can take your life when you’re giving it away.

And I admit, I’m a bit on my heels these days… but I’m working on it!

5. Bet on Love: I’ve failed to live up to it. And it has definitely felt, at times, like it has “failed” me when I have. But I can’t let it go. I won’t.

For years, I preached a liberal message of preemptive love for ISIS fighters. ISIS was evil. But at the heart were young men who’d had their world upended. And I felt it was incumbent upon us as peacemakers to not carpet bomb them to hell before we stood on their frontlines inviting them and their families back to life.

So when I preached the same for white supremacist American terrorists, I was shocked to learn that love could be “blue” when it challenged Trumpian politics in the Middle East and “red” when it challenged Democratic politics in the US.

But as the rainbow bumper sticker says, “love is love”.

We face endless pressures today to run off the cliff with the rest of our group; to vilify others; and sow into divisions.

The call to Love has gone silent. And it’s time we revive it.

Life Beyond Panic

We Americans call it the “Iraq War”. But here in Iraq, where I still live, it's more likely to be called the “US Occupation”. And it's from this vantage point that I’ve spent almost my entire adult life studying the impact of carpet bombs, terrorist sniping, troop surges, and propaganda on identity and psychology.

On this 20th anniversary, this conviction remains: we cannot bomb ideas out of existence.

The panicked attacks we are committing against each other today look to me like so many 9/11s, Pearl Harbors, and Salem Witch trials, stuck in a kind of animism that sees evil spirits under every rock and and embodied monsters around every corner.

Our greatest threat is not Muslims or Evangelicals; or Russia; or Democrats or Republicans; or Black men or cops; or the LGBTQ community. It’s our own anger; our story of each other.

But what do you think would happen if we took that enchanted view of the world and started looking for the good in each other, instead of the bad?

I bet my life we’ll find more Love.

Jeremy
@thejcourt

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